Happy Chinese New Year to everybody. And, welcome to the first sexiest post in 2009 on culture-4-travel.com.
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The Chinese believe that old age is the most wonderful time of your life. There is a proverb from Confucius that best describes this idea.
"Old age, believe me, is a good and pleasant thing. It is true you are gently shouldered off the stage, but then you are given such a comfortable front stall as spectator."
Traditionally, the oldest person in a family or an organization has the most respect, honor, and dignity. This person does not have to worry about anything when he gets old, because everything should be taking care of by his children. Best of all, this individual still holds the most power in the house like the godfather.
When the grandfather says something, the majority of the time this will be the final decision. So, if he thinks it's funny for you to run around the house twenty times, guess what, that's the final decision.
What about the woman's side, you may ask? Well, the first elder wife's commands are more important than the next wives and daughter-in-law or whoever carried the first son in the house.
The young people will call an old man or woman "Ye Ye" (grandfather), and "Nai Nai" (grandmother). Even if they are not related to that person it is a sign of respect. These same rules apply to children when they address the young adults, except the kids will call them by "Tai Tai" (aunt), and "Shu Shu" (uncle).